本帖最后由 toaster1290 于 2012-5-9 04:38 编辑
在Facebook看到这个贴, 真是感人。 把它翻译成中文于大家共享。 祝所有妈妈们母亲节快乐!
母亲给女儿的信:“我亲爱的女儿,当你看我老了的一天,我请求你,请耐心对待,但最重要的是请尝试明白我的经历。 如果当我们谈话时,我第一千片重复同样的事情,请不要中断我的话说:“一分钟前, 你说同样的事情”。请你静静的听着,请尝试记得小的时候,你和我读相同的故事, 一夜又一夜,直到你入睡。当我不想洗澡时,请不要生气, 也不要让我觉得尴尬。 还记的当你只是一个小女孩的时候,我追着你跑, 找不同的借口,来试图让你冲个澡。 当你看到我对新科技有多么的无知,请给我时间来学习,不要那么看着我......请记住,亲爱的,我曾耐心教会你许多东西, 例如怎样吃饭,穿好衣服,梳头发,处理每天生活中的问题. 有一天,当你看到我老了,我请求你,请耐心对待,但最重要的是,尝试理解我的经历。如果,我有时在谈话中跑题,请给我时间想起来,如果我不能,请不要紧张,不耐烦或傲慢。只需知道在你的心中,对我来说最重要的是和你在一起。当我老了,我疲惫的双腿不能让我像以前那样迅速移动,请给我你的手, 就像在你第一天学走路时我给你我的手一样,不要感到悲伤......只要和我在一起,了解我,让我带着你的爱走到生命的尽头。我会珍惜和感谢你我共同拥有的时光和喜悦。 我永远有微笑和爱给你,我只想对你说,“我爱你......我亲爱的女儿。
Letter from a Mother to a Daughter: "My dear girl, the day you see I’m getting old, I ask you to please be patient, but most of all, try to understand what I’m going through. If when we talk, I repeat the same thing a thousand times, don’t interrupt to say: “You said the same thing a minute ago”... Just listen, please. Try to remember the times when you were little and I would read the same story... night after night until you would fall asleep. When I don’t want to take a bath, don’t be mad and don’t embarrass me. Remember when I had to run after you making excuses and trying to get you to take a shower when you were just a girl? When you see how ignorant I am when it comes to new technology, give me the time to learn and don’t look at me that way... remember, honey, I patiently taught you how to do many things like eating appropriately, getting dressed, combing your hair and dealing with life’s issues every day... the day you see I’m getting old, I ask you to please be patient, but most of all, try to understand what I’m going through. If I occasionaly lose track of what we’re talking about, give me the time to remember, and if I can’t, don’t be nervous, impatient or arrogant. Just know in your heart that the most important thing for me is to be with you. And when my old, tired legs don’t let me move as quickly as before, give me your hand the same way that I offered mine to you when you first walked. When those days come, don’t feel sad... just be with me, and understand me while I get to the end of my life with love. I’ll cherish and thank you for the gift of time and joy we shared. With a big smile and the huge love I’ve always had for you, I just want to say, I love you... my darling daughter. " |