No all man are like that. My hubby is very kind and he was with me through the whole process for both kids. He helped me with the paint by pressing the presure points which were very helpful. Most of the dads I know are also very nice and did accompany their wifes all the way.
Part of the problem is the system in China where man could not be with their wife during the process.
发表于 2012-3-20 03:32
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我是提前了半个月生的，当天晚上还跟婆婆打电话她说还有半个月我先来家吧（婆婆在老家乡下呢）我说还有两个多星期呢（后来我婆婆说当时她挂了电话就跟公公说说不准今天就生了呢，好准啊）不用急。结果悲剧了当天半夜2点多就肚子疼......由于没到预产期，是老公跟同事送去的医院，老公都急得啥都没带了，好在医院离家不远。结果等我痛半天（整整10个小时啊，顺产啊，痛到我哀求医生说给我打局麻吧，医生还不让呢，老公找同学帮忙好歹给局麻了。），生完了，当时产房刚好就我一个生孩子的，护士把我孩子给我看了抱出去给家属看，马上就回来了，说没有家属（我妈跟我婆婆都在老家到我家的车上呢还没有到）！！我还说我老公在啊，好在手机老公当时没有拿走，留给我（因为在待产房家属能待但产房一般就不能进的老公不知道出什么原因居然留下了我的手机）。一打电话，靠，他说在路上呢，我说你去哪了娃都生完了，他说等了8、9个小时记得我当时痛的厉害夜里也没吃啥，早上也是吃啥吐啥，巧克力啥的也吃不进去，怕我没力气（当时我生一半确实没有力气， 医生说卡住了现在也剖不了，后来是侧切了才生出的）；给我回家拿东西顺便熬冬米粥（我们老家说孕妇生孩子有头风一定要吃冬米做的粥才好）去了！我好几年了都想起就念叨我老公这事！
