所谓的原则就是一个门坎儿，一旦你越过了这个坎儿也就没有所谓的原则了。 "Once a cheater, always a cheater."

 When you got married, you promised to love and honor your spouse.  That word does not mean that you must grovel at his or her feet.  It means, simply, that you should respect each other, and a large part of showing a person respect lies in being honest with them. 

 Cheating is not a wake-up call to your spouse.  It is a viscious slap in the face, and to do as you are, and as you have been doing for some time, shows that not only do you have no respect for him, but you have none for yourself, either. Cheating does not need courage!!! If you still want your marriage last while you are cheating with someone else, then all you need to do is knowing how to cover your ass without busted!

 If you continue to play the game, unless your husband/wife is a idiot, he/she will find out, and you may find yourself free-falling in a bottomless abyss that you dug for yourself!  If you haven't figured that out by now, nothing anyone says here will make a difference.

 出轨会带给你无限的刺激和激情。但是当你在和他激情浪漫的时候，请换位思维一下是否你会接受或无视他背着你也做出同样的行为。 

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